Is It Ok To Use A Behavior Chart With Children Of Relatives Whom I Babysit Once Per Week?
I’d like to find something in order to make my day easier when looking after the children, and I think a behavior chart might be helpful. Is this ok to use one as a babysitter, or is it stepping too much into the parents’ boundaries?
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Posted on February 28th, 2010 at 10:55 pm
Of course! You’re in charge; you make the rules. A behavior chart is a great first step. As a teacher, I have learned that the keys to effective discipline are clear expectations, consistency, and follow-through. I suggest that you inform parents of what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. Good luck!
Posted on March 1st, 2010 at 2:52 am
Yes, it is ok. It is your home, and you are in charge of the children. You do whatever you need to do while they are with you. It does not have to be used at home, that is their choice.
But FYI…this is why I do not watch children of relatives, friends, or neighbors.
Posted on March 1st, 2010 at 8:18 am
If your babysitting then you have all rights to make sure the kids behave and listen to you. I think it’d be just fine and you could always check with their parents if you want to be sure. God bless
Posted on March 1st, 2010 at 9:56 am
If you’re only watching them once per week, I’d say its overkill. Make your day easier by having fun with them, not trying to modify behavior. If you have major behavior issues you should address it with the parents, not try to deal with it on your own. It’s babysitting, not military camp! Get some art supplies, take them to the park. If you keep kids busy enough they don’t have time to misbehave. Good luck
Posted on March 1st, 2010 at 1:47 pm
your house = your rules.
i like the idea of having fun
Posted on March 1st, 2010 at 5:34 pm
Do whatever makes it easier on you. You are gracious to look after them in the first place.
Your house, your boundaries, rules, etc. If the parents don’t like it, they can take the kids somewhere else.
You just shouldn’t spank them or physically discipline them in any way other than time out.